I recently stood in the gravelly snow of spring and stared up at the roof of my garage, observing it with what must surely have seemed like knowledgeable expertise. The man beside me did the same, and we made quite the pair – this roof was a serious matter. “Mmm… I don’t think I want [...]
Are You Struggling Over a Small Readership?
How many people read your blog? 1,000? 500? 300? Maybe even just 100 readers or less. Those numbers might discourage you. Just 100 readers. That’s nothing, you think. You look at the big blogs you admire, and with a low heart, you notice their reader stats so proudly displayed. They have thousands of daily readers [...]
The Magical Whiteboard and the Fruits of Labor
For my first official Men with Pens post, I asked James whether I should write a serious post or a funny one. James shrugged, and I realized I’d asked possibly the stupidest question ever, slapped myself across the face, and sat down to write about The Magical Whiteboard. I have a problem with procrastination. If [...]
How to Stay Sane and Alive if You’re Creative
There are days when I’m consumed by my fears, anxieties and worry. The words don’t come. The pages are garbage. The brilliant idea slipped through my fingers, and it’s gone forever. There are other days when I revel in the love of words like I’m rolling in lottery money, throwing it up to the air [...]
Are You Losing Faith in Your Writing Dream?
Many people dreamed of becoming writers when they were younger. They spent teenage years crafting short stories, building fantasy worlds or reading cereal boxes while eating breakfast. Words were part of their lives. They voraciously read every book they could get their hands on, spent hours walking through bookstores and filled shelves with beloved novels. [...]
Interview with Pen woMan #4: The Rogue Taylor Reveals All
1. What prompted you to join Men with Pens? You already have your own business, right? I do, and I intend to continue expanding it. The Men cannot bring me down! Seriously, though, James has been indispensable for business advice, and working with the Men frequently has helped me understand how I’d like to operate [...]
How to Plan a Freelancer Vacation So You Can Refuel
Last week’s post on the life of freelancers and their runaway trains hit a nerve – many people could see themselves on that crash course to burnout already. One resounding question many people had was, “How do we take our hand off the throttle and start coasting towards a refueling station?”Alex Fayle brings the answer. [...]
A Skewed Sense of Time Screws Up Your Schedule
Casinos play some interesting mind games to keep players at the tables. They’ll do anything to make you forget the outside world exists. There are attractive settings with enough class to make anyone feel like James Bond in Monte Carlo and free drinks as long as you’re playing at the slot machines or the tables. [...]
The Single Freelancer Policy that Saves Your Soul
“Mmm… That’s not really what I’m looking for. Let’s revise this and give it another shot, okay?” Usually, a revision request is perfectly fine. It’s normal and part of the job, in fact. Unless you have special powers or a crystal ball, you can’t read other people’s minds. Getting it right 100% of the time [...]
Is Your Life a Runaway Train?
Alex is a good friend of mine, and I’m glad. He and I have this interesting synergy, where just a quick comment out of the blue from one of us sets off the professional radar of the other. I leap on this; he pounces on that. (No one gets hurt in the process.) Recently, he [...]











