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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1467</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2007 14:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Walter - Controversy sells. Everyone is about being entertained, even if that means outrage and drama. Selling isn&#039;t the point, though, not in this case. It&#039;s just a question of realizing that &quot;me&quot; is okay online. To me, online personality and my personality, period, is one and the same.

@ Roberta - I knew you&#039;d be proud :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Walter &#8211; Controversy sells. Everyone is about being entertained, even if that means outrage and drama. Selling isn&#8217;t the point, though, not in this case. It&#8217;s just a question of realizing that &#8220;me&#8221; is okay online. To me, online personality and my personality, period, is one and the same.</p>
<p>@ Roberta &#8211; I knew you&#8217;d be proud <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Roberta Rosenberg</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1462</link>
		<dc:creator>Roberta Rosenberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2007 13:45:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, James ... for a Canadian, there&#039;s a whole lot of balls and cocky discussion taking place.

Good for you.

As someone who resonates with Naomi&#039;s style (and thanks for introducing her blog to me!), I understand where you&#039;re a perplexed as to how much to reveal, especially in a business blog. For me, I generally don&#039;t discuss my politics, my religion or my family except where applicable to a specific marketing/business/world view post.

But I don&#039;t hide my views either. Doesn&#039;t take more than half a brain to guess where I side on most issues, but in a business blog what I think about the coming US presidential election in 2008 doesn&#039;t matter ... except as fodder for a particular marketing viewpoint.

So here&#039;s my marketing viewpoint - use the Pareto Principle (80% of your business comes from 20% of your customers.) Who IS your target marketing - what&#039;s their persona/profile? Direct yourself to the segment most likely to love you/your work and the rest? Well, they weren&#039;t going to hire you anyway :=)

Be bold, be brave, be - dare I say - ballsy :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, James &#8230; for a Canadian, there&#8217;s a whole lot of balls and cocky discussion taking place.</p>
<p>Good for you.</p>
<p>As someone who resonates with Naomi&#8217;s style (and thanks for introducing her blog to me!), I understand where you&#8217;re a perplexed as to how much to reveal, especially in a business blog. For me, I generally don&#8217;t discuss my politics, my religion or my family except where applicable to a specific marketing/business/world view post.</p>
<p>But I don&#8217;t hide my views either. Doesn&#8217;t take more than half a brain to guess where I side on most issues, but in a business blog what I think about the coming US presidential election in 2008 doesn&#8217;t matter &#8230; except as fodder for a particular marketing viewpoint.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s my marketing viewpoint &#8211; use the Pareto Principle (80% of your business comes from 20% of your customers.) Who IS your target marketing &#8211; what&#8217;s their persona/profile? Direct yourself to the segment most likely to love you/your work and the rest? Well, they weren&#8217;t going to hire you anyway :=)</p>
<p>Be bold, be brave, be &#8211; dare I say &#8211; ballsy <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Walter Terry</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1461</link>
		<dc:creator>Walter Terry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 20:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt; I donâ€™t like getting into debates. Weâ€™re running a business blog.â€

But James, controversy sells. Presumably, one of the points of having a business blog is to sell by proving your expertise with the content you write. My numbers go up whenever I take a really big swing at some company or school of thought or institution.

And the larger the institution, the more aggravated people are about it and have sublimated that outrage. I give voice to that unexpressed outrage.

I started out making my case with a couple of paragraphs here, but it blossomed out of control. Here&#039;s a link to the rest of this comment: http://roicopy.com/2007/11/28/controversy-or-avoidance-which-sells .


Thanks for the food for thought, James. Apologies for the disjointedness, but I&#039;m short on time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt; I donâ€™t like getting into debates. Weâ€™re running a business blog.â€</p>
<p>But James, controversy sells. Presumably, one of the points of having a business blog is to sell by proving your expertise with the content you write. My numbers go up whenever I take a really big swing at some company or school of thought or institution.</p>
<p>And the larger the institution, the more aggravated people are about it and have sublimated that outrage. I give voice to that unexpressed outrage.</p>
<p>I started out making my case with a couple of paragraphs here, but it blossomed out of control. Here&#8217;s a link to the rest of this comment: <a href="http://roicopy.com/2007/11/28/controversy-or-avoidance-which-sells" rel="nofollow">http://roicopy.com/2007/11/28/controversy-or-avoidance-which-sells</a> .</p>
<p>Thanks for the food for thought, James. Apologies for the disjointedness, but I&#8217;m short on time.</p>
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		<title>By: Controversy Or Avoidance - Which Sells? &#124; ROI Copywriting For Internet Marketing</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1460</link>
		<dc:creator>Controversy Or Avoidance - Which Sells? &#124; ROI Copywriting For Internet Marketing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 20:47:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] copywriter and blogger James Chartrand is wrestling with the direction to take his &#8220;online personality,&#8221; and he&#8217;s doing his thinking out-loud with Harrison McLeod, the other half of their [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] copywriter and blogger James Chartrand is wrestling with the direction to take his &#8220;online personality,&#8221; and he&#8217;s doing his thinking out-loud with Harrison McLeod, the other half of their [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Harry</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1465</link>
		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 19:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*grumbles* Roommate, house mate...the guy who owns the house I share expenses with...it&#039;s all the same to me. That&#039;s Pete.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*grumbles* Roommate, house mate&#8230;the guy who owns the house I share expenses with&#8230;it&#8217;s all the same to me. That&#8217;s Pete.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1464</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 19:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Harry - House mate?... Bro, roommate. Roommate would be the correct term.  Tell Pete I said hi.

@ Naomi - Thank you. Told you I had balls ;)  And I&#039;m cocky, too.

@ both - For me, it&#039;s not a question of picking battles. It&#039;s a question of continuing to be the person I was before the virtual world opened my borders beyond Canada. The alternate option was to continue as is, stay quiet, shut my mouth, following Harry&#039;s advice, and feeling very emprisoned. No. I am free.  (Okay, smart enough to be diplomatic, but hey. You know what I mean.)

Reminds me of that creed, &quot;This is what it means to be a Canadian...&quot; (Of course, replace Canadian with any frickin&#039; country, seems like that creed&#039;s gone the world over!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Harry &#8211; House mate?&#8230; Bro, roommate. Roommate would be the correct term.  Tell Pete I said hi.</p>
<p>@ Naomi &#8211; Thank you. Told you I had balls <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   And I&#8217;m cocky, too.</p>
<p>@ both &#8211; For me, it&#8217;s not a question of picking battles. It&#8217;s a question of continuing to be the person I was before the virtual world opened my borders beyond Canada. The alternate option was to continue as is, stay quiet, shut my mouth, following Harry&#8217;s advice, and feeling very emprisoned. No. I am free.  (Okay, smart enough to be diplomatic, but hey. You know what I mean.)</p>
<p>Reminds me of that creed, &#8220;This is what it means to be a Canadian&#8230;&#8221; (Of course, replace Canadian with any frickin&#8217; country, seems like that creed&#8217;s gone the world over!)</p>
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		<title>By: Harry</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1463</link>
		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 18:56:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Naomi,

I couldn&#039;t agree with you more and in the end, it&#039;s all about choosing your battles. As I&#039;ve told Jamie, some things just aren&#039;t worth getting worked up about. You&#039;re going to run into people who, no matter how valid your points are, won&#039;t hear a damn thing you say. So why waste your breath and risk your reputation? I also have a house mate who lives by the same creed as your husband. He&#039;s a firm believer in speaking his mind and not caring what people think about it - but (and this is a big but) he doesn&#039;t do it often, so when he does do it, it tends to carry more weight. I think too many people spout off far too often and they end up with problems.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Naomi,</p>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree with you more and in the end, it&#8217;s all about choosing your battles. As I&#8217;ve told Jamie, some things just aren&#8217;t worth getting worked up about. You&#8217;re going to run into people who, no matter how valid your points are, won&#8217;t hear a damn thing you say. So why waste your breath and risk your reputation? I also have a house mate who lives by the same creed as your husband. He&#8217;s a firm believer in speaking his mind and not caring what people think about it &#8211; but (and this is a big but) he doesn&#8217;t do it often, so when he does do it, it tends to carry more weight. I think too many people spout off far too often and they end up with problems.</p>
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		<title>By: Naomi Dunford</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/blogging-personality-and-conflicting-views/#comment-1466</link>
		<dc:creator>Naomi Dunford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 04:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was a really great post. I&#039;d say that even if I wasn&#039;t so complimentarily (?) referenced. :)

It&#039;s an incredibly tough balance to strike. I&#039;m lucky in that I have a husband who says that if people don&#039;t like me, screw &#039;em. That helps. I&#039;m also lucky in that I was really, really broke for a long time. When you&#039;ve accepted that level of brokeness, getting fired doesn&#039;t really seem like such a bad thing. (This is not an attitude I recommend for people who have children who require either orthodontia or a college education.)

I think, for me anyway, I came to the conclusion that I would rather make $30K that doesn&#039;t feel like work than make $60K by squeezing myself into the mental version of a business suit. In my admittedly not-very-representative sample of the freelancing world, it&#039;s actually worked out in my favour, but even if it hadn&#039;t, I like to think I&#039;d keep doing it anyway.

Thank you. This was a lovely post and I&#039;m highly impressed. It takes a lot of balls. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was a really great post. I&#8217;d say that even if I wasn&#8217;t so complimentarily (?) referenced. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It&#8217;s an incredibly tough balance to strike. I&#8217;m lucky in that I have a husband who says that if people don&#8217;t like me, screw &#8216;em. That helps. I&#8217;m also lucky in that I was really, really broke for a long time. When you&#8217;ve accepted that level of brokeness, getting fired doesn&#8217;t really seem like such a bad thing. (This is not an attitude I recommend for people who have children who require either orthodontia or a college education.)</p>
<p>I think, for me anyway, I came to the conclusion that I would rather make $30K that doesn&#8217;t feel like work than make $60K by squeezing myself into the mental version of a business suit. In my admittedly not-very-representative sample of the freelancing world, it&#8217;s actually worked out in my favour, but even if it hadn&#8217;t, I like to think I&#8217;d keep doing it anyway.</p>
<p>Thank you. This was a lovely post and I&#8217;m highly impressed. It takes a lot of balls. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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