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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23982</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2009 11:26:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Miguel - I&#039;m not Harry, but I&#039;ll answer on his behalf :)  We outsource when we know it doesn&#039;t need US to get the job done. For example, much of the administration of the Sticky Business contest was outsourced. 

Actually, I don&#039;t really like the word outsourcing, simply because it has really stupid negative associations. Delegation is a much better word.

@ Anne - Best two weeks we ever had :)

@ Iain - I can&#039;t? Oh man. Don&#039;t say that. No no. Yes you can. Just not in the amounts you&#039;d like!

@ Note 2 - Taking care of yourself is crucial. Absolutely, definitely. If you don&#039;t take care of yourself and your projects, who will?

(and since you&#039;re a regular now, can I get a name? I feel weird calling you Note)

@ Janice - Mmmhm. You said it all right there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Miguel &#8211; I&#8217;m not Harry, but I&#8217;ll answer on his behalf <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   We outsource when we know it doesn&#8217;t need US to get the job done. For example, much of the administration of the Sticky Business contest was outsourced. </p>
<p>Actually, I don&#8217;t really like the word outsourcing, simply because it has really stupid negative associations. Delegation is a much better word.</p>
<p>@ Anne &#8211; Best two weeks we ever had <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@ Iain &#8211; I can&#8217;t? Oh man. Don&#8217;t say that. No no. Yes you can. Just not in the amounts you&#8217;d like!</p>
<p>@ Note 2 &#8211; Taking care of yourself is crucial. Absolutely, definitely. If you don&#8217;t take care of yourself and your projects, who will?</p>
<p>(and since you&#8217;re a regular now, can I get a name? I feel weird calling you Note)</p>
<p>@ Janice &#8211; Mmmhm. You said it all right there.</p>
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		<title>By: Miguel &#124; Simply Blog</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23980</link>
		<dc:creator>Miguel &#124; Simply Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2009 05:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Harry 

What types of business related things have you outsourced? Yeah, since teaming up with other bloggers- I&#039;ve benefited not only from their friendship but also from their experience, resources, opportunities and contacts. A joint venture or working with a team has its pros and cons. :) Thanks for sharing! 
-Mig

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Miguel &#124; Simply Blog&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://simplyblog.net/in-the-beginning-blog/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In the Beginning, Blog!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Harry </p>
<p>What types of business related things have you outsourced? Yeah, since teaming up with other bloggers- I&#8217;ve benefited not only from their friendship but also from their experience, resources, opportunities and contacts. A joint venture or working with a team has its pros and cons. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thanks for sharing!<br />
-Mig</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Miguel | Simply Blog&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://simplyblog.net/in-the-beginning-blog/" rel="nofollow">In the Beginning, Blog!</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Anne Wayman</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23957</link>
		<dc:creator>Anne Wayman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 20:53:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Learning to treat myself like a client has certainly helped... then I realized you two took actual time off! Didn&#039;t blog or anything!

I&#039;ve got a lot to learn. Thanks for the example (thinking about a vacation...)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learning to treat myself like a client has certainly helped&#8230; then I realized you two took actual time off! Didn&#8217;t blog or anything!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got a lot to learn. Thanks for the example (thinking about a vacation&#8230;)</p>
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		<title>By: Iain Broome</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23919</link>
		<dc:creator>Iain Broome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 20:46:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Balancing those things in your life that you &lt;em&gt;have&lt;/em&gt; to do with new, dare I say it, more exciting projects, is always a difficult thing. I&#039;m a fiction writer that makes a living as a full-time copywriter. Don&#039;t get me wrong, I like my day job, but it would be fantastic if I could spend more time on my creative scribbling. But I can&#039;t. So I have to do the kinds of things you suggest!

Great post!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Iain Broome&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://writeforyourlife.net/10-things-to-write-on-in-an-emergency&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;10 things to write on in an emergency!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Balancing those things in your life that you <em>have</em> to do with new, dare I say it, more exciting projects, is always a difficult thing. I&#8217;m a fiction writer that makes a living as a full-time copywriter. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I like my day job, but it would be fantastic if I could spend more time on my creative scribbling. But I can&#8217;t. So I have to do the kinds of things you suggest!</p>
<p>Great post!</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Iain Broome&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://writeforyourlife.net/10-things-to-write-on-in-an-emergency" rel="nofollow">10 things to write on in an emergency!</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Note Taking Nerd #2</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23918</link>
		<dc:creator>Note Taking Nerd #2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 19:59:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of my favorite gurus says of himself and his most successful proteges, that they all spend as much time working on themselves as they do working on their bidniz. 

This means working on what produces the work.  Your mindset.  

Weakened belief systems can reduce you to the idea that you should place others needs ahead of our own.  When you do this you become a slave to what you think will please other people and put your own dreams and desires on the hold.  Maybe forever.

People who desperately seek the approval of others will always manipulate their schedule to fit into someone they see as having higher value than themselves.  

If you never work on your belief systems that lead to this cycle of doomed behaviour, you&#039;ll never be fulfilled.

I don&#039;t know where to tell you to look for it but if you can find a program called &quot;Creating Change That Lasts&quot; by Tony Robbins, this is a 12 cd course that goes deep into what stops you from doing what you want to do and how to disrupt this pattern so you can move onto a level of thinking that supports your ideal life.

After you get this find Dan Kennedy&#039;s &quot;Renegade Millionaire Time Management&quot; program.  It&#039;s awesome.  This man writes maybe more than any person on this site and still makes time for consulting, live seminars, and horse racing.  

The big idea I pulled from this program was too script your day every night before you go to bed.  Then take your commitments to spend your time as you wish as seriously as you would an appointment with President Obama.

Check these resources out.  I&#039;m sure you&#039;ll love em&#039;.  

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Note Taking Nerd #2&#180;s last blog post...Are You Coming Across as Too Much of a Smarty Pants To Your Prospects And Customers?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite gurus says of himself and his most successful proteges, that they all spend as much time working on themselves as they do working on their bidniz. </p>
<p>This means working on what produces the work.  Your mindset.  </p>
<p>Weakened belief systems can reduce you to the idea that you should place others needs ahead of our own.  When you do this you become a slave to what you think will please other people and put your own dreams and desires on the hold.  Maybe forever.</p>
<p>People who desperately seek the approval of others will always manipulate their schedule to fit into someone they see as having higher value than themselves.  </p>
<p>If you never work on your belief systems that lead to this cycle of doomed behaviour, you&#8217;ll never be fulfilled.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know where to tell you to look for it but if you can find a program called &#8220;Creating Change That Lasts&#8221; by Tony Robbins, this is a 12 cd course that goes deep into what stops you from doing what you want to do and how to disrupt this pattern so you can move onto a level of thinking that supports your ideal life.</p>
<p>After you get this find Dan Kennedy&#8217;s &#8220;Renegade Millionaire Time Management&#8221; program.  It&#8217;s awesome.  This man writes maybe more than any person on this site and still makes time for consulting, live seminars, and horse racing.  </p>
<p>The big idea I pulled from this program was too script your day every night before you go to bed.  Then take your commitments to spend your time as you wish as seriously as you would an appointment with President Obama.</p>
<p>Check these resources out.  I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll love em&#8217;.  </p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Note Taking Nerd #2&#180;s last blog post&#8230;Are You Coming Across as Too Much of a Smarty Pants To Your Prospects And Customers?</em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Janice Cartier</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23917</link>
		<dc:creator>Janice Cartier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 16:54:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Work once , sell many&quot;.. Like chop wood, carry water, great advice.

Knowing why you are doing what you do, why it is important to you in life, and who has a stake in it, can be an eye opener too.  Shifts the time focus a bit.

Love this post Harry. ;-)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Janice Cartier&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/cartier/paintings/~3/503536510/january-pink-sale.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;January Pink Sale&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Work once , sell many&#8221;.. Like chop wood, carry water, great advice.</p>
<p>Knowing why you are doing what you do, why it is important to you in life, and who has a stake in it, can be an eye opener too.  Shifts the time focus a bit.</p>
<p>Love this post Harry. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Janice Cartier&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/cartier/paintings/~3/503536510/january-pink-sale.html" rel="nofollow">January Pink Sale</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23914</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:18:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ John/Harry - Actually, it&#039;s not that hard at all. I think we tend to talk ourselves out of doing things very quickly. If we had the spark to get into business to take care of ourselves in the first place, I think that spark to have a better life is always there.

@ Bamboo - An ebook is 1) Fast and 2) Easy if you know how to write and do proper design. It&#039;s a great way to go if you have an idea that stands out!

@ Tony - You have my curiosity piqued. I&#039;m going to have to check that out, because I think it might blend in nicely with a small ace I have up my sleeve...

@ Friar - Um... Awesome, yes. Feasible? No. :) But work once, sell many is a good idea to get to that lazy chair you have goin&#039; on!

@ Everyone - Go read JD&#039;s comment, because that just about sums it up right there. That&#039;s exactly why we all do what we do - because we feel good about it later. Don&#039;t feel good? Don&#039;t do it. Focus on what matters.

@ Charlie - Obviously if you have time to come comment, you&#039;re slacking off somewhere else. And you didn&#039;t pick up your towels off the floor, dude. 

@ Lisa - You know what? I read your comment, laughed out loud and thought...

The world is a better place when people laugh. You go, girlfriend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ John/Harry &#8211; Actually, it&#8217;s not that hard at all. I think we tend to talk ourselves out of doing things very quickly. If we had the spark to get into business to take care of ourselves in the first place, I think that spark to have a better life is always there.</p>
<p>@ Bamboo &#8211; An ebook is 1) Fast and 2) Easy if you know how to write and do proper design. It&#8217;s a great way to go if you have an idea that stands out!</p>
<p>@ Tony &#8211; You have my curiosity piqued. I&#8217;m going to have to check that out, because I think it might blend in nicely with a small ace I have up my sleeve&#8230;</p>
<p>@ Friar &#8211; Um&#8230; Awesome, yes. Feasible? No. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  But work once, sell many is a good idea to get to that lazy chair you have goin&#8217; on!</p>
<p>@ Everyone &#8211; Go read JD&#8217;s comment, because that just about sums it up right there. That&#8217;s exactly why we all do what we do &#8211; because we feel good about it later. Don&#8217;t feel good? Don&#8217;t do it. Focus on what matters.</p>
<p>@ Charlie &#8211; Obviously if you have time to come comment, you&#8217;re slacking off somewhere else. And you didn&#8217;t pick up your towels off the floor, dude. </p>
<p>@ Lisa &#8211; You know what? I read your comment, laughed out loud and thought&#8230;</p>
<p>The world is a better place when people laugh. You go, girlfriend.</p>
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		<title>By: John Hoff</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23913</link>
		<dc:creator>John Hoff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Harry
Re: It looks easier on paper

Yes . . . it most certainly does, doesn&#039;t it. The best way I&#039;ve found to go about it (so far) is to build slowly.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;John Hoff&#180;s last blog post...Understanding The Psychology Of Your Website Visitors&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Harry<br />
Re: It looks easier on paper</p>
<p>Yes . . . it most certainly does, doesn&#8217;t it. The best way I&#8217;ve found to go about it (so far) is to build slowly.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>John Hoff&#180;s last blog post&#8230;Understanding The Psychology Of Your Website Visitors</em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest - PunIntended</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23911</link>
		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest - PunIntended</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 22:03:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think an e-book is one of the best ways to earn passive income. A good e-book will take time to write, but the returns will be well worth it.

As soon as I find myself in an opportunity to write an e-book about something that has true value for customers, I will do it.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Bamboo Forest - PunIntended&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://punintended.com/blog/our-identities-finally-revealed/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Our Identities Finally Revealed&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think an e-book is one of the best ways to earn passive income. A good e-book will take time to write, but the returns will be well worth it.</p>
<p>As soon as I find myself in an opportunity to write an e-book about something that has true value for customers, I will do it.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Bamboo Forest &#8211; PunIntended&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://punintended.com/blog/our-identities-finally-revealed/" rel="nofollow">Our Identities Finally Revealed</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tony Lawrence</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/finding-more-time-for-yourself/#comment-23910</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Lawrence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 18:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the passive income techniques I&#039;ve used for more than 25 years now is yearly service retainers.    I put the link that explains the details in my Website link for this comment - I strongly recommend that service based business consider using these for passive income, for avoiding nickel and dime billing and for automatic discounts to larger customers.   

Funny thing is, a lot of people who should do this resist the idea, thinking that their customers won&#039;t like it.  If you pitch it right, they LOVE it, and after a few years, it becomes dependable, regular income that lets you coast through the inevitable dry periods.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/504808471/ufo.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Seeking Political Asylum - need ride&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the passive income techniques I&#8217;ve used for more than 25 years now is yearly service retainers.    I put the link that explains the details in my Website link for this comment &#8211; I strongly recommend that service based business consider using these for passive income, for avoiding nickel and dime billing and for automatic discounts to larger customers.   </p>
<p>Funny thing is, a lot of people who should do this resist the idea, thinking that their customers won&#8217;t like it.  If you pitch it right, they LOVE it, and after a few years, it becomes dependable, regular income that lets you coast through the inevitable dry periods.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/504808471/ufo.html" rel="nofollow">Seeking Political Asylum &#8211; need ride</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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