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		<title>By: Joe Bulger</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-35254</link>
		<dc:creator>Joe Bulger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 15:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James, I say create efficient gifts. Info that can help people help themselves.

When it comes to your business time? Be stingy. Be a soldier of profit. There&#039;s thousands upon thousands out there with bottomless need looking for free help. You can be sucked dry and be left wallowing amongst those you were trying to help. 

On personal time you can find ways to help others. I&#039;m a Rotary member and we do lots of good for lots of people. Yet most members are successful business people who have learned to separate charity from their place of business. 

Joe :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James, I say create efficient gifts. Info that can help people help themselves.</p>
<p>When it comes to your business time? Be stingy. Be a soldier of profit. There&#8217;s thousands upon thousands out there with bottomless need looking for free help. You can be sucked dry and be left wallowing amongst those you were trying to help. </p>
<p>On personal time you can find ways to help others. I&#8217;m a Rotary member and we do lots of good for lots of people. Yet most members are successful business people who have learned to separate charity from their place of business. </p>
<p>Joe <img src='http://cdn.menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: make someone smile</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-9768</link>
		<dc:creator>make someone smile</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 06:56:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the neighbor. Pick up something a person dropped. Give someone a freebie just because you can. Anhttp://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-differenceSend Free E Greeting Cards and make someone Smile today!Send free online Greeting Cards. Find [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] the neighbor. Pick up something a person dropped. Give someone a freebie just because you can. Anhttp://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-differenceSend Free E Greeting Cards and make someone Smile today!Send free online Greeting Cards. Find [...]</p>
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		<title>By: I Can Make a Difference? : Melissa Donovan</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-2931</link>
		<dc:creator>I Can Make a Difference? : Melissa Donovan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 08:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] James Chartrand of Men with Pens tagged me to do something nice and then write about it, I thought he was crazy. Okay, I know James is perfectly sane. I&#8217;m the one who&#8217;s crazy. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] James Chartrand of Men with Pens tagged me to do something nice and then write about it, I thought he was crazy. Okay, I know James is perfectly sane. I&#8217;m the one who&#8217;s crazy. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: John Hoff</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Hoff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 13:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel ya, Naomi. I feel ya.

&lt;em&gt;John Hoff&#039;s last blog post..My Marketing Hero Himself - Seth Godin&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel ya, Naomi. I feel ya.</p>
<p><em>John Hoff&#8217;s last blog post..My Marketing Hero Himself &#8211; Seth Godin</em></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-638</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 11:46:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That poor Lab... really. I should call the SPCA.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That poor Lab&#8230; really. I should call the SPCA.</p>
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		<title>By: Naomi Dunford</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-634</link>
		<dc:creator>Naomi Dunford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 04:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Today, I didn&#039;t hand my infant son to the nearest Labrador Retriever and say, &quot;Here. You deal with him.&quot; Does that count? Even a little bit?

Fine. I&#039;ll go and think of something &lt;em&gt;else&lt;/em&gt;.

&lt;em&gt;Naomi Dunford&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://ittybiz.com/frugality-vs-reality-cash-flow-when-working-from-home/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Frugality Vs. Reality: Cash Flow When Working From Home&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today, I didn&#8217;t hand my infant son to the nearest Labrador Retriever and say, &#8220;Here. You deal with him.&#8221; Does that count? Even a little bit?</p>
<p>Fine. I&#8217;ll go and think of something <em>else</em>.</p>
<p><em>Naomi Dunford&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://ittybiz.com/frugality-vs-reality-cash-flow-when-working-from-home/' rel="nofollow">Frugality Vs. Reality: Cash Flow When Working From Home</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2008 22:42:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The best side effect James had was feeling he&#039;d made a difference. 

I ended up doing some great work that afternoon, was in the best mood, and got more done than I had in weeks. Huh, now there&#039;s a thought: being nice increases your productivity!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best side effect James had was feeling he&#8217;d made a difference. </p>
<p>I ended up doing some great work that afternoon, was in the best mood, and got more done than I had in weeks. Huh, now there&#8217;s a thought: being nice increases your productivity!</p>
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		<title>By: John Hoff</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-625</link>
		<dc:creator>John Hoff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2008 22:39:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great topic and one that I take to heart.

Over the years I&#039;ve built websites and helped people market their businesses for free, in part because it was never a business for me - just something I liked to do. I&#039;ve also helped them incorporate and structure their business. Most of these people were just starting out. They had no money and lived paycheck-to-paycheck. 

Like Dave (and James) said, what comes around goes around, that&#039;s true.  Here&#039;s a little business-minded spin on this process I see:

By helping people get what they &lt;em&gt;want&lt;/em&gt;, you are helping yourself get what &lt;em&gt;you want&lt;/em&gt; in business. By giving Goran what he wanted for free, Goran needed James and will be more likely to help James succeed, because his own success is tied to James.

Now I don&#039;t mean be generous just for the simple fact that people will take care of you. I simply mean it&#039;s a nice side effect.

&lt;em&gt;John Hoff&#039;s last blog post..My Marketing Hero Himself - Seth Godin&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great topic and one that I take to heart.</p>
<p>Over the years I&#8217;ve built websites and helped people market their businesses for free, in part because it was never a business for me &#8211; just something I liked to do. I&#8217;ve also helped them incorporate and structure their business. Most of these people were just starting out. They had no money and lived paycheck-to-paycheck. </p>
<p>Like Dave (and James) said, what comes around goes around, that&#8217;s true.  Here&#8217;s a little business-minded spin on this process I see:</p>
<p>By helping people get what they <em>want</em>, you are helping yourself get what <em>you want</em> in business. By giving Goran what he wanted for free, Goran needed James and will be more likely to help James succeed, because his own success is tied to James.</p>
<p>Now I don&#8217;t mean be generous just for the simple fact that people will take care of you. I simply mean it&#8217;s a nice side effect.</p>
<p><em>John Hoff&#8217;s last blog post..My Marketing Hero Himself &#8211; Seth Godin</em></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-609</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2008 15:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Charlie - That&#039;s the challenge. Most of us are nice people to begin with - what can we do over and beyond that to make a difference?

I think, too, is seeing the difference between making a difference (ie, deliberately volunteering to do good) and creating a difference with an unexpected random act (can I help you carry those bags?). While they both accomplish good and they do make people feel better, they&#039;re very distinct from each other and achieve different reactions, both in others and in ourselves.

Think away. And you&#039;re welcome :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Charlie &#8211; That&#8217;s the challenge. Most of us are nice people to begin with &#8211; what can we do over and beyond that to make a difference?</p>
<p>I think, too, is seeing the difference between making a difference (ie, deliberately volunteering to do good) and creating a difference with an unexpected random act (can I help you carry those bags?). While they both accomplish good and they do make people feel better, they&#8217;re very distinct from each other and achieve different reactions, both in others and in ourselves.</p>
<p>Think away. And you&#8217;re welcome <img src='http://cdn.menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Charlie - Ignite Living</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/five-people-who-can-make-a-difference/#comment-604</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlie - Ignite Living</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2008 07:11:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, James, you too got me thinking so the feeling is mutual.

Interesting timing in that I usually spend my weekends doing volunteer work of some kind. But...it almost seems stupid to write about being kind with volunteer work because...well...that&#039;s what it is by nature. Sort of almost disqualifies it from being anything special? Maybe? I don&#039;t know. It&#039;s late and it&#039;s been a long day.

But I&#039;m gonna play with this one, for sure. I don&#039;t have a name for what these are, these random acts of kindnesses. Karma maybe. Or ethics or just plain help. Whatever it is I know we all recognize it when it occurs. It&#039;s that thing that puts a smile on your face, and that feeling in your chest.

Thanks for making me smile, James. And thank you too for the multiple kindnesses you&#039;ve already paid me this week.

&lt;em&gt;Charlie - Ignite Living&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/IgniteLiving/~3/234630207/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Anti-GTD advice: Managing your email and good customer service&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, James, you too got me thinking so the feeling is mutual.</p>
<p>Interesting timing in that I usually spend my weekends doing volunteer work of some kind. But&#8230;it almost seems stupid to write about being kind with volunteer work because&#8230;well&#8230;that&#8217;s what it is by nature. Sort of almost disqualifies it from being anything special? Maybe? I don&#8217;t know. It&#8217;s late and it&#8217;s been a long day.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;m gonna play with this one, for sure. I don&#8217;t have a name for what these are, these random acts of kindnesses. Karma maybe. Or ethics or just plain help. Whatever it is I know we all recognize it when it occurs. It&#8217;s that thing that puts a smile on your face, and that feeling in your chest.</p>
<p>Thanks for making me smile, James. And thank you too for the multiple kindnesses you&#8217;ve already paid me this week.</p>
<p><em>Charlie &#8211; Ignite Living&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/IgniteLiving/~3/234630207/' rel="nofollow">Anti-GTD advice: Managing your email and good customer service</a></em></p>
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