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		<title>By: How to Sell with a Clear Conscience &#124; Men With Pens</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to Sell with a Clear Conscience &#124; Men With Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 10:02:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] They don&#8217;t want to sell something to those who have no money. They don&#8217;t want to push their products or sell with [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Three Tips and a Bonus to Market Yourself &#160;&#124;&#160;Freelance Writing Jobs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Three Tips and a Bonus to Market Yourself &#160;&#124;&#160;Freelance Writing Jobs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 09:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] our own politeness and discomfort at blowing our own horn gets in the way of promoting ourselves. Don&#8217;t be shy; these people need you â€“ they just don&#8217;t know it [...]</description>
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<p>[...] our own politeness and discomfort at blowing our own horn gets in the way of promoting ourselves. Don&#8217;t be shy; these people need you â€“ they just don&#8217;t know it [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Game 30: #1 Seed John August Versus #5 Seed Men With Pens : Writer&#8217;s Resource Center</title>
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		<dc:creator>Game 30: #1 Seed John August Versus #5 Seed Men With Pens : Writer&#8217;s Resource Center</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 14:22:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: 27 New Link Love Articles This Week &#124; Writer's Resource Center</title>
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		<dc:creator>27 New Link Love Articles This Week &#124; Writer's Resource Center</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 17:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Meryl K. Evans</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meryl K. Evans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 02:23:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Finding middle ground between confidence and arrogance is tricky. Many bloggers and writers start off as a joy to read and then slowly make us think, &quot;They&#039;re full of themselves.&quot; It happens to nice people and they don&#039;t realize it. I always fear crossing that chasm (that is, if I haven&#039;t -- I hope).

That&#039;s why I ask my clients how I am doing after working with them for a little bit. Then at the end of an engagement, I ask for a testimonial (even from a client where things didn&#039;t work out). 

Recently, a writer sent a newsletter telling everyone to check out her new blog -- comments were pouring in. Maybe I read too much into it -- to me, it came off as arrogance. Here was this writer who had just started a blog bragging how popular it is.

Or maybe as a long-time and tired blogger... it&#039;s a case of green-eyed syndrome. But hey, I really have green eyes.

Where&#039;s the line between promotion and information?

&lt;em&gt;Meryl K. Evans&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Meryl/~3/282322876/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Pocket PC Magazine Accepting Nominations for 2008&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finding middle ground between confidence and arrogance is tricky. Many bloggers and writers start off as a joy to read and then slowly make us think, &#8220;They&#8217;re full of themselves.&#8221; It happens to nice people and they don&#8217;t realize it. I always fear crossing that chasm (that is, if I haven&#8217;t &#8212; I hope).</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I ask my clients how I am doing after working with them for a little bit. Then at the end of an engagement, I ask for a testimonial (even from a client where things didn&#8217;t work out). </p>
<p>Recently, a writer sent a newsletter telling everyone to check out her new blog &#8212; comments were pouring in. Maybe I read too much into it &#8212; to me, it came off as arrogance. Here was this writer who had just started a blog bragging how popular it is.</p>
<p>Or maybe as a long-time and tired blogger&#8230; it&#8217;s a case of green-eyed syndrome. But hey, I really have green eyes.</p>
<p>Where&#8217;s the line between promotion and information?</p>
<p><em>Meryl K. Evans&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Meryl/~3/282322876/' rel="nofollow">Pocket PC Magazine Accepting Nominations for 2008</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Harmony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harmony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 02:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post James.  In fact, when you know what you are good at, and what you tend to suck at, and you are honest and upfront about it, I find people want to do business with you.  They know you will give them the straight goods about other things too, and not simply try to put yourself in a good light.
Thanks.

&lt;em&gt;Harmony&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://goldenzen.wordpress.com/2008/05/02/are-you-big-enough-to-take-up-space/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Are You BIG Enough To Take Up Space?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post James.  In fact, when you know what you are good at, and what you tend to suck at, and you are honest and upfront about it, I find people want to do business with you.  They know you will give them the straight goods about other things too, and not simply try to put yourself in a good light.<br />
Thanks.</p>
<p><em>Harmony&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://goldenzen.wordpress.com/2008/05/02/are-you-big-enough-to-take-up-space/' rel="nofollow">Are You BIG Enough To Take Up Space?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Brett Legree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brett Legree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 21:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tony,

It is the revenge of Microsoft.  They&#039;ve hacked the Akismet ruleset and anytime a *nix guy leaves a comment, it gets relegated to spam.  Unless the *nix guy tries to sell Viagra...

Maybe you should try that at my blog next time :)

&lt;em&gt;Brett Legree&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/6weeksca/~3/281981566/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;viking fridays - the unwise man.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tony,</p>
<p>It is the revenge of Microsoft.  They&#8217;ve hacked the Akismet ruleset and anytime a *nix guy leaves a comment, it gets relegated to spam.  Unless the *nix guy tries to sell Viagra&#8230;</p>
<p>Maybe you should try that at my blog next time <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Brett Legree&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/6weeksca/~3/281981566/' rel="nofollow">viking fridays &#8211; the unwise man.</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 20:50:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am fucking *laughing* my ass off, Tony. That comment? Viagra and all? Never hit the spam filter - and that&#039;s the first time in WEEKS.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am fucking *laughing* my ass off, Tony. That comment? Viagra and all? Never hit the spam filter &#8211; and that&#8217;s the first time in WEEKS.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony Lawrence</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tony Lawrence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 20:47:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know why I end up in spam.   I suspect Askimet - I think someone, somewhere, probably didn&#039;t like some comment I made and flagged me.   I assume they have a central database?

It&#039;s damn annoying..  I went to Askimet&#039;s site but don&#039;t see anyplace where you can tell them &quot;Sheesh, I&#039;m NOT a spammer&quot;.

So I guess I AM a spammer..  at least from now on.    Anybody want to buy some Viagra?

&lt;em&gt;Tony Lawrence&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/282344351/way-out-there.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Linux Lunacy  by Anthony Lawrence&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know why I end up in spam.   I suspect Askimet &#8211; I think someone, somewhere, probably didn&#8217;t like some comment I made and flagged me.   I assume they have a central database?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s damn annoying..  I went to Askimet&#8217;s site but don&#8217;t see anyplace where you can tell them &#8220;Sheesh, I&#8217;m NOT a spammer&#8221;.</p>
<p>So I guess I AM a spammer..  at least from now on.    Anybody want to buy some Viagra?</p>
<p><em>Tony Lawrence&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/282344351/way-out-there.html' rel="nofollow">Linux Lunacy  by Anthony Lawrence</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Mark Dykeman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Dykeman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 19:46:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@James - yeah, but you don&#039;t know where my mind&#039;s been...   :)

&lt;em&gt;Mark Dykeman&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/BroadcastingBrain/~3/282007367/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Catch the brainwaves of Patricia Mayo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@James &#8211; yeah, but you don&#8217;t know where my mind&#8217;s been&#8230;   <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Mark Dykeman&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/BroadcastingBrain/~3/282007367/' rel="nofollow">Catch the brainwaves of Patricia Mayo</a></em></p>
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