How to Write Sexy Content that Satisfies

sexyblonde2.jpgIf you want to be that confident writer who satisfies readers so that they beg for more, look no further than…

… your bedroom.

Don’t be Shy

If you don’t let anyone see what you write, you’re ashamed of your writing. What are you afraid of? When you’re too shy to let people see your work, you’ll never find out how good your content is or where you need to improve. So let your hair down. Go on and show off what you’ve got. Writing isn’t a dirty little secret.

Relax and Enjoy It

Writing often feels like you’re in the spotlight to perform well. You may be trying to impress your reader with some smooth moves, but that’s a mistake. It’s overkill. Readers just want to read something good, not something that wins awards. So let your writing come naturally. Go with the flow and give yourself permission to enjoy what you’re doing.

The More You Do It, the Better It Gets

Practice makes for a stellar performance. Each time you write, you get to try something a little new, a little different, and analyze the reaction of your reader. When you evoke a great reaction, remember what you did to achieve it. Use it the next time. Perfect it. Hone it. Soon, you’ll be able to say you’re fantastic in bed.

Measuring Up To Past Lovers

When you write for someone else, their opinion might make you nervous. How do you compare to other writers? Did you live up to expectations? Did you satisfy your reader? Will he or she want more? Well, quit worrying. All writers – even the best ones – worry. Hey, think about it: Maybe those writers are wondering how they compared to you.

Was It Good for You, Honey?

There’s nothing wrong with asking for some reassurance from your reader that you came through on all accounts. Get honest opinions and comments about your work. Embrace feedback, accept it, and use it to your advantage. Find out what a reader liked so you can both have a better time next go ’round. If you don’t ask, you may find out your reader went somewhere else to get what they wanted.

Use Some Protection

If you’re having fun, the last thing you want is an unpleasant, unexpected surprise. So be careful, be responsible, and protect yourself. Try to make sure that your content isn’t going to upset the masses or explode your blog with nasty comments. And be prepared just in case something you wrote gets blown way out of proportion when you least expect it. When you write, you have to be careful – even if it’s all just for fun.

What’s Your Fantasy?

Everyone has fantasies. Do you want to be an author who writes great novels? What about a crack copywriter who bangs out million-dollar sales letters? Go for it; live your fantasy. Act it out. Pretend that you are that award-winning author or that copywriter. How would that person behave? What would they do? You may just find out that your fantasies aren’t that out of reach – and you can make them a reality.

Spicing It Up

You can have plain old vanilla writing, or you can spice things with some chocolate sauce and cherries to make your content stand out. Break paragraphs up – no one likes a marathon session in bed, and they don’t like it in writing either. Use headers and bullet points. Try single sentences to add some impact. Stop readers in their tracks with a good punch line.

Keep it Behind Closed Doors

You may like it wild and dirty, you may have some quirky fetishes. Sometimes, revealing that to everyone is just too much information. Don’t go bashing people with your religious views, your opinions on abortion or your thoughts on homosexuality (unless you’re an activist, of course). Stay cool about political topics. Be yourself – but try to be respectful too.

Ask for What You Want

If you want to really enjoy your writing, ask for what you want. Be confident – there’s nothing wrong with asking people to help you have more fun writing. Ask a great writer you admire for coaching, mentoring, extra help or maybe just a critique. You’ll feel better, write better and become more confident.

One is Just as Fun

Writers need to write – consistently, often, and for the simple pleasure of personal enjoyment. You don’t have to always be writing for others. Write for yourself, because you love it, because it’s fun. Turn yourself on. You aren’t trying to please someone else – just yourself.

Post by James Chartrand

James Chartrand is an expert copywriter and the owner of Men with Pens and Damn Fine Words, the game-changing writing course for business owners. She loves the color blue, her kids, Nike sneakers and ice skating.

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  1. I can see this new blog is going to be far racier than the last one. Very sleek, James.

    Melissa Donovan’s last blog post..Stumbling January

  2. It feels like a nice, worn leather jacket that fits just perfectly.

    Much as I wish it, though, you won’t always be greeted with sexy shots on arrival. Sorry. We have a reputation to uphold ;)

  3. Can you PLEASE stop putting my picture up on your blog? OK, I was naked at your house, like, what? Once? (OK, three times, but it’s that damn Quebec liquor.) And you’re putting pictures up every damn time I turn around? I’m getting tired of looking at myself!

  4. @Naomi & James: I knew I couldn’t leave you two alone.

  5. @ Harry – Easy for you to say. It’s cold in Canada, dude.

    Naomi Dunford’s last blog post..Duct-Taped Breasts, Hairy Mangoes, And New Kids On The Block

  6. *looks with mild interest at Naomi’s last blog post*

    Duct tape and mangoes… did you mention me by name? Picture are one thing, but real names?

  7. I have no idea what this post said, but I’m sure it was excellent advice.

    Jay F.H.’s last blog post..Generating Blog Traffic – From “Hello World!” to “Hello Subscribers!” – for Beginners

  8. Dude, what are you talking about?

    Naomi Dunford’s last blog post..Duct-Taped Breasts, Hairy Mangoes, And New Kids On The Block

  9. @ Jay – Naomi’s picture has that effect on people…

  10. My last comment wasn’t directed at Jay, by the way. It just looks that way ’cause of comment mods.

    Naomi Dunford’s last blog post..Duct-Taped Breasts, Hairy Mangoes, And New Kids On The Block

  11. @ Naomi – I knew that.

  12. I know you knew that. I just wanted to make sure poor Jay didn’t think I was being rude to him when in actuality I was being rude to you. :-P

    Naomi Dunford’s last blog post..Duct-Taped Breasts, Hairy Mangoes, And New Kids On The Block

  13. @Naomi: Well, judging by what you’re wearing in that picture, no wonder you’re cold!

  14. @ Harry – Men. They always say it’s the woman’s fault. :-P

    Naomi Dunford’s last blog post..Duct-Taped Breasts, Hairy Mangoes, And New Kids On The Block

  15. Some men would, but not this one ;) As a friend of mine used to say, there’s always three sides to every story.

  16. Man…I can’t believe you made it work on so many levels! You’ve inspired me to add one more:

    “Don’t Go Prematurely”
    If you send in your work before the job is done, you’re only going to cause a letdown. By editing your work thoroughly before you submit it instead of after, you’ll avoid feeling foolish when you ask for another chance.

    Chad | ProFreelancing’s last blog post..Seven Tips to Ensure That You NEVER Miss a Deadline Again

  17. @ Chad: Good one! Here’s another:

    Stamina: Learn to pace yourself so you don’t burn out.

  18. @ Chad – Trust me, when you step back and think about sex for a week, it’s amazing what ideas you can come up with ;)

    Dare I add – Bring a Friend? When you need to give your content a boost, a guest poster can be just the thing to spark some inspiration!

  19. Michael Martine says:

    Hey, this rocks. Great new blog. Mikey likey. Instant subscribification.

    Michael Martine’s last blog post..Start Video Blogging in Five Easy Steps

  20. WOOT! You made my day, man. Thanks!

  21. Haha…bring a friend. Classic.

    Chad | ProFreelancing’s last blog post..Seven Tips to Ensure That You NEVER Miss a Deadline Again

  22. James –

    When I saw the screenshot for your blog (THIS post) I about spit my coffee out … you didn’t have this pic up when I reviewed it!

    Dave Navarro – Million Dollar Leverage’s last blog post..Christine O?Kelly Made Me Do It ?

  23. @Dave: You are correct, sir. When James asked me to find a picture worthy of a post like this, I couldn’t resist.

  24. I would add:

    Enjoy the Afterglow

    Don’t be too quick to go after the next conquest. It is ok to cuddle for a while and just enjoy the moment. You only get to write something once, right?

    Anjuan’s last blog post..The Revenge of Veronica Belmont

  25. Ah, good one. Yes, yes…

  26. This reminds me of the “Whose Line Is It Anyway” game where you add “…. *if* you know what I mean.” to the end of every sentence …

    Dave Navarro – Million Dollar Leverage’s last blog post..Christine O?Kelly Made Me Do It ?

  27. I loved that show. Colin Machary (sp?) with the green screen was friggin’ hilarious.

  28. Yeah … I always say that Colin Mochrie put Canada on the map!

    Just kidding …

    Dave Navarro – Million Dollar Leverage’s last blog post..Christine O?Kelly Made Me Do It ?

  29. James – this is freakin awesome! Here’s another: Learn new techniques by watching others. My college professors always said that the best way to get better at writing was to read more writing from pros. Even though you may have natural abilities, you can always learn some new techniques by observing others. :)

    Christine O’Kelly’s last blog post..How I’ve Been Holding Myself Back And How to Avoid Stagnation In Your Business

  30. Damn, Christine! I would never have imagined that one coming from you! Good one *high fives*

  31. A few more:

    Music: Sometimes the best (typing) moves will…um, come with the right music.

    Do It in the Dark: Your muse wakes you up in the middle of the night — it’s time. So, just a quick post while the mood strikes.

    Do It in Public: Sometimes the best spot for it is right out in the public. There’s a “thrill” that comes from wondering if anyone will notice.

    Nez’s last blog post..A Simple Truth about Wealth

  32. Nice ones, Nez!

    Here’s another: Silk, Leather, & Feathers: Appeal to the senses with some vivid description.

  33. Wow, looking at the comments it seems there’s lots of frisky people out there.

    Joe :D

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