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	<title>Comments on: Can You Learn How to Be an Overnight Success?</title>
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		<title>By: Eric</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34912</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 15:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The main thing for me is to know what my goals are and keep going after them. Continue reading those success stores and learn what they did and if I implement some of their strategies and they get me going a bit more closer to my goals just a bit faster, great. If not, keep doing what I&#039;ve been doing and keep learning.

Bottom line from my perspective is that success CAN happen over night if you&#039;ve been working hard and have a plan and take action on that plan and know where you&#039;re going. THEN you absolutely one day and wake up and realize you&#039;ve finally made it, and others will then look at you as the over night success and question what you did and how it happened to you so fast.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The main thing for me is to know what my goals are and keep going after them. Continue reading those success stores and learn what they did and if I implement some of their strategies and they get me going a bit more closer to my goals just a bit faster, great. If not, keep doing what I&#8217;ve been doing and keep learning.</p>
<p>Bottom line from my perspective is that success CAN happen over night if you&#8217;ve been working hard and have a plan and take action on that plan and know where you&#8217;re going. THEN you absolutely one day and wake up and realize you&#8217;ve finally made it, and others will then look at you as the over night success and question what you did and how it happened to you so fast.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34747</link>
		<dc:creator>Matthew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 05:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a good reality check for anyone who is starting a new business. It&#039;s always good to keep a watchful eye on your competitors and find out what they are doing to replicate their success but always keep in mind that their success took hard work and dedication.
.-= Matthew&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.australianmonitor.com.au/news/news-archive/the-icon1-paging-microphone-is-arriving-soon/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The ICON1 Paging Microphone is Arriving Soon.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a good reality check for anyone who is starting a new business. It&#8217;s always good to keep a watchful eye on your competitors and find out what they are doing to replicate their success but always keep in mind that their success took hard work and dedication.<br />
.-= Matthew&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.australianmonitor.com.au/news/news-archive/the-icon1-paging-microphone-is-arriving-soon/" rel="nofollow">The ICON1 Paging Microphone is Arriving Soon.</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: I left a keyword for a name</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34734</link>
		<dc:creator>I left a keyword for a name</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 11:05:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The thing that has got me through is reminding myself what my real goals are.Success does happen overnight. The night before you’re not, the morning your work comes out and it’s noticed it is. And that kind of moment is gone again the very next morning. Leaving you with the next ‘overnight’ to work toward.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The thing that has got me through is reminding myself what my real goals are.Success does happen overnight. The night before you’re not, the morning your work comes out and it’s noticed it is. And that kind of moment is gone again the very next morning. Leaving you with the next ‘overnight’ to work toward.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Harrison</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34727</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy Harrison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 08:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ James, and after the bathtubs filled with gold, the pen-shaped swimming pool of course. ;-)
.-= Amy Harrison&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/HarrisonamyCopywriting/~3/dH5utUvdLNw/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Will Creativity Build or Break your Business?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ James, and after the bathtubs filled with gold, the pen-shaped swimming pool of course. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Amy Harrison&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/HarrisonamyCopywriting/~3/dH5utUvdLNw/" rel="nofollow">Will Creativity Build or Break your Business?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Rahman</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34714</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah Rahman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 13:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting read! I believe it&#039;s not about competing in the freelance world..sincere efforts and hard work, when being put, certainly reap rewards sooner or later.
.-= Sarah Rahman&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://sarahrehman.blogspot.com/2010/06/recollection-1st-annual-pakistan-blog.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Recollection: 1ST Annual Pakistan Blog Awards 2010&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting read! I believe it&#8217;s not about competing in the freelance world..sincere efforts and hard work, when being put, certainly reap rewards sooner or later.<br />
.-= Sarah Rahman&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://sarahrehman.blogspot.com/2010/06/recollection-1st-annual-pakistan-blog.html" rel="nofollow">Recollection: 1ST Annual Pakistan Blog Awards 2010</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34710</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 10:12:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Amy - My &quot;overnight&quot; success also took four years of damned hard work to reach this point. 

Each year was better than the last, of course. And according to my growth chart and mathematical calculations, I expect to own a mansion that has bathtubs filled with gold within just two short years. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Amy &#8211; My &#8220;overnight&#8221; success also took four years of damned hard work to reach this point. </p>
<p>Each year was better than the last, of course. And according to my growth chart and mathematical calculations, I expect to own a mansion that has bathtubs filled with gold within just two short years. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Amy Harrison</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34709</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy Harrison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 09:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@matthew - I really like the idea of opportunity and preparation. The more you improve what it is you do the more you tend to see the opportunities spring up as well. 

@ThoreyO - Hi! It&#039;s those last few steps that get most of the attention but it gives us a skewed impression of how things are achieved. 

@Susan - I admire your grit and determination and your honesty about sitting on your ass and moping. I&#039;ve definitely been there and sometimes reaching that point of pure frustration is just what you need to spur you on and keep going.

@Business Logos - Definitely, believing in yourself is a powerful skill to have to succeed and for me, looking at overnight successes dulls that rather than working to improve what I do. 

@Mellaman - I think your point shows that James is a perfect example of the overnight success. 

There are a lot of people who became aware of James and her work after the article explaining why she adopted a male name. Suddenly everyone was talking about it and it got a lot of attention.

But like I mention in the post, it&#039;s too easy to focus on this part of James&#039; journey and if you only read that article you&#039;d be forgiven for thinking that taking a male name was the only reason she succeeded. 

However, it doesn&#039;t take a genius to see past that and discover the real formula for Jame&#039;s success: the volumes of great writing, first class freelancing advice, the eBooks James has released, the guest posts she has written and the fantastic service that has resulted in an extensive client list.

Regardless of how much attention James received by adopting a male name, it&#039;s her relentless determination and prolific writing that created her own &quot;overnight success.&quot;
.-= Amy Harrison&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/HarrisonamyCopywriting/~3/dH5utUvdLNw/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Will Creativity Build or Break your Business?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@matthew &#8211; I really like the idea of opportunity and preparation. The more you improve what it is you do the more you tend to see the opportunities spring up as well. </p>
<p>@ThoreyO &#8211; Hi! It&#8217;s those last few steps that get most of the attention but it gives us a skewed impression of how things are achieved. </p>
<p>@Susan &#8211; I admire your grit and determination and your honesty about sitting on your ass and moping. I&#8217;ve definitely been there and sometimes reaching that point of pure frustration is just what you need to spur you on and keep going.</p>
<p>@Business Logos &#8211; Definitely, believing in yourself is a powerful skill to have to succeed and for me, looking at overnight successes dulls that rather than working to improve what I do. </p>
<p>@Mellaman &#8211; I think your point shows that James is a perfect example of the overnight success. </p>
<p>There are a lot of people who became aware of James and her work after the article explaining why she adopted a male name. Suddenly everyone was talking about it and it got a lot of attention.</p>
<p>But like I mention in the post, it&#8217;s too easy to focus on this part of James&#8217; journey and if you only read that article you&#8217;d be forgiven for thinking that taking a male name was the only reason she succeeded. </p>
<p>However, it doesn&#8217;t take a genius to see past that and discover the real formula for Jame&#8217;s success: the volumes of great writing, first class freelancing advice, the eBooks James has released, the guest posts she has written and the fantastic service that has resulted in an extensive client list.</p>
<p>Regardless of how much attention James received by adopting a male name, it&#8217;s her relentless determination and prolific writing that created her own &#8220;overnight success.&#8221;<br />
.-= Amy Harrison&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/HarrisonamyCopywriting/~3/dH5utUvdLNw/" rel="nofollow">Will Creativity Build or Break your Business?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 21:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Mellaman,

Hmmm, I think you have selective reading going on, if I couldn&#039;t write well, didn&#039;t have skills and wasn&#039;t able to perform at a higher ability, then I wouldn&#039;t have reached ANY kind of success, male or female.

My personal experience in regards to gender and names is that I&#039;ve found a male name attracts MORE success and provides MORE opportunities than a female name.

But a name is not all it takes. I&#039;m not sure where you read that.

Also! While gender bias is a lovely topic I&#039;m happy to discuss via email, it would certainly be a better idea to focus on Amy&#039;s post and HER ideas, don&#039;t you think? So if you&#039;d like to pursue the subject, give me a shout via the contact form.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Mellaman,</p>
<p>Hmmm, I think you have selective reading going on, if I couldn&#8217;t write well, didn&#8217;t have skills and wasn&#8217;t able to perform at a higher ability, then I wouldn&#8217;t have reached ANY kind of success, male or female.</p>
<p>My personal experience in regards to gender and names is that I&#8217;ve found a male name attracts MORE success and provides MORE opportunities than a female name.</p>
<p>But a name is not all it takes. I&#8217;m not sure where you read that.</p>
<p>Also! While gender bias is a lovely topic I&#8217;m happy to discuss via email, it would certainly be a better idea to focus on Amy&#8217;s post and HER ideas, don&#8217;t you think? So if you&#8217;d like to pursue the subject, give me a shout via the contact form.</p>
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		<title>By: Mellaman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mellaman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 19:39:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being a man alone doesn&#039;t guarantee success? But that&#039;s not at all what you wrote in your article about how simply adopting a male nom de plume led you to great success. You said that was all their was to it. Have you changed your mind? Because all the advice you&#039;re giving indicates that there is lot more to it than simply being male. It would have been nice if you would have said that in the article instead of claiming that simply pretending to be male guarantees success.

@Matthew D: I&#039;m not playing the gender card, that&#039;s what &quot;James&quot; did when she wrote that she was able to achieve success simply by pretending to be male. I simply point out that if it was that simple then why the need to write about all the various requirements essential to achieve success, when you previously claimed that all it takes is a male first name? If you&#039;re unsuccessful, just adopt a male name. How that explains the lack of success of those who already have male names, perhaps &quot;James&quot; can tell us.

&quot;I&#039;d like to think that success hinges on far more than just being male&quot;

Then perhaps you shouldn&#039;t have written an article claiming that that was all there was to it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being a man alone doesn&#8217;t guarantee success? But that&#8217;s not at all what you wrote in your article about how simply adopting a male nom de plume led you to great success. You said that was all their was to it. Have you changed your mind? Because all the advice you&#8217;re giving indicates that there is lot more to it than simply being male. It would have been nice if you would have said that in the article instead of claiming that simply pretending to be male guarantees success.</p>
<p>@Matthew D: I&#8217;m not playing the gender card, that&#8217;s what &#8220;James&#8221; did when she wrote that she was able to achieve success simply by pretending to be male. I simply point out that if it was that simple then why the need to write about all the various requirements essential to achieve success, when you previously claimed that all it takes is a male first name? If you&#8217;re unsuccessful, just adopt a male name. How that explains the lack of success of those who already have male names, perhaps &#8220;James&#8221; can tell us.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;d like to think that success hinges on far more than just being male&#8221;</p>
<p>Then perhaps you shouldn&#8217;t have written an article claiming that that was all there was to it?</p>
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		<title>By: Business Logos</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/overnight-success/#comment-34696</link>
		<dc:creator>Business Logos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 13:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Part of success is mental. You need to set realistic goals and feel the success of your first sale, your best month, the freedom that your job gives you. It really does come down to how you define success.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Part of success is mental. You need to set realistic goals and feel the success of your first sale, your best month, the freedom that your job gives you. It really does come down to how you define success.</p>
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