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		<title>By: How to Build Your Blog Community &#124; Men With Pens</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29364</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Build Your Blog Community &#124; Men With Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 07:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the past few weeks, I&#8217;ve been discussing the blogging community, how it&#8217;s being misused and abused, and how those who don&#8217;t abuse it have become my [...]</description>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29242</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Lizbeth - Yeah, that&#039;s another example of spongers - the clients that guilt trip you into lower rates. Sucks, that. 

@ Kathy - Oh, now that&#039;s an interesting application, eh? I&#039;ve had a few of those, as well. They come off looking like joint venture kind of things and apparently the joints at work are all mine. Um, no.

@ Mr. Lich - Well, I think it&#039;s more in the online world than the offline one. People wouldn&#039;t walk up to you on the street and ask you, y&#039;know? But yeah. It&#039;s becoming prevalent throughout the &#039;net.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Lizbeth &#8211; Yeah, that&#8217;s another example of spongers &#8211; the clients that guilt trip you into lower rates. Sucks, that. </p>
<p>@ Kathy &#8211; Oh, now that&#8217;s an interesting application, eh? I&#8217;ve had a few of those, as well. They come off looking like joint venture kind of things and apparently the joints at work are all mine. Um, no.</p>
<p>@ Mr. Lich &#8211; Well, I think it&#8217;s more in the online world than the offline one. People wouldn&#8217;t walk up to you on the street and ask you, y&#8217;know? But yeah. It&#8217;s becoming prevalent throughout the &#8216;net.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisbeth Tanz</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29219</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisbeth Tanz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 23:31:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, I&#039;m a bit behind in reading Men with Pens posts. Got to this one and FACE PALM! Wow, I can so relate to this - and I&#039;m not even an uber successful writer...yet. I don&#039;t mind pitching in for the greater good - when I&#039;m part of the greater good. But when things turn ugly, that is, when people begin to take advantage or, heaven forbid, expect me to continue to do things for free or at low cost, they seem offended when I say &quot;no.&quot; This even has roots in my client base. After working with a company (as a freelancer) for over 3 years, they approached me with a request that I reduce my rates because &quot;they didn&#039;t want to pay so much and they could get someone to do the job at 1/4 of what I charge.&quot; I not-so-subtly suggested that they go hire that other person - what a deal! They balked, I gave in a bit, and will now be letting them go as a client at the end of this year. (Don&#039;t tell them, they don&#039;t know yet.) Point is - I can be a sucker for the &quot;greater good&quot; or own up to the fact that I do, indeed, need to earn not only a living wage, but a fulfilling wage. Still working on that. Thanks for another great post and for making me think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, I&#8217;m a bit behind in reading Men with Pens posts. Got to this one and FACE PALM! Wow, I can so relate to this &#8211; and I&#8217;m not even an uber successful writer&#8230;yet. I don&#8217;t mind pitching in for the greater good &#8211; when I&#8217;m part of the greater good. But when things turn ugly, that is, when people begin to take advantage or, heaven forbid, expect me to continue to do things for free or at low cost, they seem offended when I say &#8220;no.&#8221; This even has roots in my client base. After working with a company (as a freelancer) for over 3 years, they approached me with a request that I reduce my rates because &#8220;they didn&#8217;t want to pay so much and they could get someone to do the job at 1/4 of what I charge.&#8221; I not-so-subtly suggested that they go hire that other person &#8211; what a deal! They balked, I gave in a bit, and will now be letting them go as a client at the end of this year. (Don&#8217;t tell them, they don&#8217;t know yet.) Point is &#8211; I can be a sucker for the &#8220;greater good&#8221; or own up to the fact that I do, indeed, need to earn not only a living wage, but a fulfilling wage. Still working on that. Thanks for another great post and for making me think.</p>
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		<title>By: Kathy Herrmann</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29166</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy Herrmann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 23:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James - Great post!

I have a related situation in my IT consulting business.  Pleas from prospects to lower fees because of all the referrals I&#039;m going to get from said prospect.  Don&#039;t have any contact information or introductions...but nifty promises of incoming business just as soon as we work cheap and &quot;do a great job&quot; of making their business better.
.-= Kathy Herrmann&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://community.intellicore-design.com/blog/2009/9/30/online-strategy-divas-talk-biz.html&quot;&gt;Online Strategy Divas Talk Biz&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James &#8211; Great post!</p>
<p>I have a related situation in my IT consulting business.  Pleas from prospects to lower fees because of all the referrals I&#8217;m going to get from said prospect.  Don&#8217;t have any contact information or introductions&#8230;but nifty promises of incoming business just as soon as we work cheap and &#8220;do a great job&#8221; of making their business better.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Kathy Herrmann&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://community.intellicore-design.com/blog/2009/9/30/online-strategy-divas-talk-biz.html">Online Strategy Divas Talk Biz</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://menwithpens.ca/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: MrLich</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29162</link>
		<dc:creator>MrLich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 21:03:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this.

&lt;i&gt;&quot;Many of these people have a self-assured attitude, too. They really think they have the right to ask for free goods. They feel they deserve it. Theyâ€™re shocked when I decline. Theyâ€™re hurt and dismayed. Theyâ€™re disappointed.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

Unfortunately, the sense of entitlement (especially here in the US) seems to be growing all the time. It&#039;s already at levels that sadden me, and it just seems to be increasing. I really hope that pendulum swings soon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this.</p>
<p><i>&#8220;Many of these people have a self-assured attitude, too. They really think they have the right to ask for free goods. They feel they deserve it. Theyâ€™re shocked when I decline. Theyâ€™re hurt and dismayed. Theyâ€™re disappointed.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Unfortunately, the sense of entitlement (especially here in the US) seems to be growing all the time. It&#8217;s already at levels that sadden me, and it just seems to be increasing. I really hope that pendulum swings soon.</p>
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		<title>By: Community Spirit in the Blogosphere &#124; Men With Pens</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29106</link>
		<dc:creator>Community Spirit in the Blogosphere &#124; Men With Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 06:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] week, I wrote about deadbeats in the community. I even swore. In English. It was [...]</description>
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<p>[...] week, I wrote about deadbeats in the community. I even swore. In English. It was [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-09-28 - John Dilbeck And Friends - Recommendations, observations, and musings about Internet marketing.</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29103</link>
		<dc:creator>Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-09-28 - John Dilbeck And Friends - Recommendations, observations, and musings about Internet marketing.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 05:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] reading: Screw Community - http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community [...]</description>
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<p>[...] reading: Screw Community &#8211; <a href="http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community">http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29093</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 09:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Jim - Sure thing - I&#039;ll guest, you pay $75. Sound like a plan? ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Jim &#8211; Sure thing &#8211; I&#8217;ll guest, you pay $75. Sound like a plan? <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jim Hayes</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29090</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim Hayes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 05:10:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A community should support itself and not just be looking to one or two people to do all the work.  It is amazing how people can ask for help without any thought into if what they asking benefits the other person in any way.

Great post and I am glad I just found your blog!  So I am thinking you should write a guest post for my blog, what do you think? ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A community should support itself and not just be looking to one or two people to do all the work.  It is amazing how people can ask for help without any thought into if what they asking benefits the other person in any way.</p>
<p>Great post and I am glad I just found your blog!  So I am thinking you should write a guest post for my blog, what do you think? <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Strip News 9-25-9 &#124; Strip News &#124; ArtPatient.com &#124; ArtPatient.com</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/screw-community/comment-page-1#comment-29056</link>
		<dc:creator>Strip News 9-25-9 &#124; Strip News &#124; ArtPatient.com &#124; ArtPatient.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 13:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] reason it&#8217;s a good idea for us non-celebrities. And it&#8217;s not for the sake of &#8216;community,&#8217; so don&#8217;t gloss over it because of that. It&#8217;s worth noting that what we do does [...]</description>
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<p>[...] reason it&#8217;s a good idea for us non-celebrities. And it&#8217;s not for the sake of &#8216;community,&#8217; so don&#8217;t gloss over it because of that. It&#8217;s worth noting that what we do does [...]</p>
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