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		<title>By: Josef Horhay</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-25250</link>
		<dc:creator>Josef Horhay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 12:13:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, But How do go about attracting the right kind of people? I run a recording studio which is a very people orientated business - where people are the number one resource.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, But How do go about attracting the right kind of people? I run a recording studio which is a very people orientated business &#8211; where people are the number one resource.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony Lawrence</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24548</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Lawrence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:43:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Michael Gerber put it well. If you do all the work, you don&#039;t own a business, you own a JOB.&quot;

Well, I don&#039;t think much of Mr. Gerber and I don&#039;t &quot;own a job&quot;.  I own a lifestyle and it&#039;s a good one.   Far better than most of the people I know with employees and buildings and all that.

But there is a middle ground in the team/partnering approaches James talks about here.  If I could do that, I would.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html&quot;&gt;Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Michael Gerber put it well. If you do all the work, you don&#8217;t own a business, you own a JOB.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, I don&#8217;t think much of Mr. Gerber and I don&#8217;t &#8220;own a job&#8221;.  I own a lifestyle and it&#8217;s a good one.   Far better than most of the people I know with employees and buildings and all that.</p>
<p>But there is a middle ground in the team/partnering approaches James talks about here.  If I could do that, I would.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html">Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Terry Heath</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24543</link>
		<dc:creator>Terry Heath</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 02:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Michael Gerber put it well. If you do all the work, you don&#039;t own a business, you own a JOB.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Terry Heath&#180;s last blog post...Crows and Social Proof&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michael Gerber put it well. If you do all the work, you don&#8217;t own a business, you own a JOB.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Terry Heath&#180;s last blog post&#8230;Crows and Social Proof</em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tony Lawrence</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24540</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Lawrence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 23:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Your life (and lifestyle) depends on your ability to be flexible, adapt, change and survive. Not your work. How many jobs have you held up to this point in time? Mmhm.&quot;

Well, yes.  I&#039;ve never really thought that I do X, Y or Z.   I do whatever it takes and always have.  I&#039;m sure you have the same outlook.  You are a writer if that&#039;s what brings you money today but if it doesn&#039;t tomorrow you&#039;ll be something else.

And yes, I&#039;ll make it - barring catastrophic illness, I&#039;ll land on my feet every time.  But lots of people won&#039;t.  We&#039;re going to see more suicides and murders down here as this mess gets worse (and it WILL get worse).  I don&#039;t mean to be grim, but unfortunately that is reality.

As you suggested above, this is a great time to take stock of your abilities and work toward building that business.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html&quot;&gt;Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Your life (and lifestyle) depends on your ability to be flexible, adapt, change and survive. Not your work. How many jobs have you held up to this point in time? Mmhm.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, yes.  I&#8217;ve never really thought that I do X, Y or Z.   I do whatever it takes and always have.  I&#8217;m sure you have the same outlook.  You are a writer if that&#8217;s what brings you money today but if it doesn&#8217;t tomorrow you&#8217;ll be something else.</p>
<p>And yes, I&#8217;ll make it &#8211; barring catastrophic illness, I&#8217;ll land on my feet every time.  But lots of people won&#8217;t.  We&#8217;re going to see more suicides and murders down here as this mess gets worse (and it WILL get worse).  I don&#8217;t mean to be grim, but unfortunately that is reality.</p>
<p>As you suggested above, this is a great time to take stock of your abilities and work toward building that business.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html">Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24539</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 23:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Tony - &lt;blockquote&gt;My life depends on my work :-)&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Your life (and lifestyle) depends on your ability to be flexible, adapt, change and survive.  Not your work. How many jobs have you held up to this point in time?  Mmhm.

You&#039;ll make it just fine. Even in the You Ess of Eh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Tony &#8211;<br />
<blockquote>My life depends on my work <img src='http://cdn.menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></blockquote>
<p>Your life (and lifestyle) depends on your ability to be flexible, adapt, change and survive.  Not your work. How many jobs have you held up to this point in time?  Mmhm.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll make it just fine. Even in the You Ess of Eh.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony Lawrence</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24538</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Lawrence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 23:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;But as you said, I wouldnâ€™t trust anyone with my life. Work is not my life&quot;

Down here in the lovely capitalistic You Ess of Ayyy , if you fail to support yourself, you are expected to crawl off into the gutter and die quietly.   Winter weather can help in my part of the country - it&#039;s slower down South but they still expect you do do no more than whimper as you pass.   I prefer my present lifestyle.

My life depends on my work :-)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html&quot;&gt;Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;But as you said, I wouldnâ€™t trust anyone with my life. Work is not my life&#8221;</p>
<p>Down here in the lovely capitalistic You Ess of Ayyy , if you fail to support yourself, you are expected to crawl off into the gutter and die quietly.   Winter weather can help in my part of the country &#8211; it&#8217;s slower down South but they still expect you do do no more than whimper as you pass.   I prefer my present lifestyle.</p>
<p>My life depends on my work <img src='http://cdn.menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html">Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24537</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 23:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Tony - True. It&#039;s not easy to work with other people at all. It asks that we have the ability to let people do what they do best and recognize that delegation isn&#039;t a loss of control. (I write about this in the Ultimate Freelancer, actually.)  We&#039;ve had plenty of times where we&#039;d like to kill each other and working together does demand patience. 

But as you said, I wouldn&#039;t trust anyone with my life. Work is not my life :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Tony &#8211; True. It&#8217;s not easy to work with other people at all. It asks that we have the ability to let people do what they do best and recognize that delegation isn&#8217;t a loss of control. (I write about this in the Ultimate Freelancer, actually.)  We&#8217;ve had plenty of times where we&#8217;d like to kill each other and working together does demand patience. </p>
<p>But as you said, I wouldn&#8217;t trust anyone with my life. Work is not my life <img src='http://cdn.menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Tony Lawrence</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24536</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Lawrence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 23:22:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;We each do what the other canâ€™t or doesnâ€™t like to do and benefit together.&quot;

You are lucky, both for finding each other and for having the temperaments to let it work.

I wish I could do that.  I&#039;ve tried it several times, but I&#039;m just too much a lone wolf (you know, Harry did that image for me)- I do not work well with anyone else.  When it comes to decisions that affect my life, I just don&#039;t trust anyone else.

Well, except my wife.  That&#039;s a 42 year partnership that has worked.   I do trust her..

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html&quot;&gt;Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;We each do what the other canâ€™t or doesnâ€™t like to do and benefit together.&#8221;</p>
<p>You are lucky, both for finding each other and for having the temperaments to let it work.</p>
<p>I wish I could do that.  I&#8217;ve tried it several times, but I&#8217;m just too much a lone wolf (you know, Harry did that image for me)- I do not work well with anyone else.  When it comes to decisions that affect my life, I just don&#8217;t trust anyone else.</p>
<p>Well, except my wife.  That&#8217;s a 42 year partnership that has worked.   I do trust her..</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Tony Lawrence&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aplawrence/ZPYH/~3/OInjXXAkqiE/stimuli.html">Bailouts, Taxes, Stimuli</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24533</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 12:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Alex - You&#039;re very welcome for the nudge. I hesitate, actually, to use the word partnership, though - it implies that people need to take on a full partner and split everything down the middle. That&#039;s actually not really accurate. But I haven&#039;t found a better word yet :)

@ Mick - Exactly. A person can run down into the ground trying to do it all. Pride, stubbornness, control issues... ditch &#039;em. Get help.

@ Tony - I do agree with you. It&#039;s good to have some understanding and knowledge. However, the lack of that should never hold anyone back from starting out.

Also, you&#039;re right. People can farm out social skill needs just as they can farm out any other type of work. Take Harry and I as an example on that one. We each do what the other can&#039;t or doesn&#039;t like to do and benefit together.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Alex &#8211; You&#8217;re very welcome for the nudge. I hesitate, actually, to use the word partnership, though &#8211; it implies that people need to take on a full partner and split everything down the middle. That&#8217;s actually not really accurate. But I haven&#8217;t found a better word yet <img src='http://cdn.menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@ Mick &#8211; Exactly. A person can run down into the ground trying to do it all. Pride, stubbornness, control issues&#8230; ditch &#8216;em. Get help.</p>
<p>@ Tony &#8211; I do agree with you. It&#8217;s good to have some understanding and knowledge. However, the lack of that should never hold anyone back from starting out.</p>
<p>Also, you&#8217;re right. People can farm out social skill needs just as they can farm out any other type of work. Take Harry and I as an example on that one. We each do what the other can&#8217;t or doesn&#8217;t like to do and benefit together.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Fayle &#124; Someday Syndrome</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/skills-business/#comment-24532</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Fayle &#124; Someday Syndrome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 06:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been considering finding some sort of partner for my blogging-related business for a while now. I&#039;ve noticed that quite often the businesses that end up doing really well are the ones that aren&#039;t solopreneurs, but partnerships.

I have an idea of what sort of person I want to partner with and I&#039;m beginning to consider how things would get divded up. I just need to clarify it.

That being said: Partnering Profits is on my list of ebooks to read and thanks for the reminder to get to reading it...

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Alex Fayle &#124; Someday Syndrome&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SomedaySyndrome/~3/l_AJz7oahHA/&quot;&gt;Getting through it on your own: The Deep Friar interview&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been considering finding some sort of partner for my blogging-related business for a while now. I&#8217;ve noticed that quite often the businesses that end up doing really well are the ones that aren&#8217;t solopreneurs, but partnerships.</p>
<p>I have an idea of what sort of person I want to partner with and I&#8217;m beginning to consider how things would get divded up. I just need to clarify it.</p>
<p>That being said: Partnering Profits is on my list of ebooks to read and thanks for the reminder to get to reading it&#8230;</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SomedaySyndrome/~3/l_AJz7oahHA/">Getting through it on your own: The Deep Friar interview</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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