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  1. I literally agree with you on this one. There was a similar post on ” to bring or not to bring work” to vacations with me the ardent believer : NO WORK!

    We should be using vacation and break offs to revitalize our creative cells to get them sparkling again :)

    Happy Revitalization!
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  2. What I tell my friends when they seem to think I don’t actually work 50 hours a week: “Yes, I own my business. And let me tell you, the boss is a bit*h.”
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  3. Kelly says:

    Tei,

    Having just decided that I’m going to take my first real, not-bring-work-with-me vacation in forever recently, this post is making me feel a bit guilty. LOL!

    “No no—to them, money just magically appears in your bank account while you wade in the creek.”

    This, sadly, is true of people who are self-employed whether they are on vacation on not. “Why do you have to go work today? Aren’t you in charge?” (Actually, since “on vacation” usually means “taking The Kid and visiting my parents,” I do pretty well with this. They love nagging me about work anyway.)

    Yeah. In charge of panning for that money in the creek. ‘Scuse me for about eight or ten hours, I’ll see you later.

    I’m conflicted now… maybe I should bring just a little something… but I liked your take on how to do it if you’ve got to. Good post.

    Regards,

    Kelly
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  4. I have two types of vacations. On the first type I bring my laptop and do maybe two or three hours of work in the morning and then take the rest of the day off.

    On the second type I don’t bring the laptop and I don’t work. However, I can’t entirely shut my brain off, so I bring my digital recorder so I can capture ideas.
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  5. I would like to put in a request for the !#!!$ – off whole post to friends- oh and family too please for us self employed and working at home folks. My adorable mother- who by the way has owned her own business most of her adult life and should know better – does not understand why I can’t just stop working when she wants to go play.

    Neither do my children or friends. When they show up…that should be reason enough to stop what I am doing.

    The clients and bills disagree…but then again…why should they get a vote???!?!?!
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  6. Bea Sempere says:

    Nice post! I’m not a freelance writer, but I’ve recently considered becoming one so now I have something to refer to. Although, some of your points do apply to me. My work is scary and I usually have no problem having a drink. LOL! Glad to hear you returned safe with an article to produce.

  7. I love this post, especially the part about making up the cost of traveling. Prior to having my own business, spending $ used to freak me out…quite a different feeling knowing you can refund it at will with a few hours of work….if that.
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  8. I usually take my laptop with me when I go away, as much for the kidlet’s entertainment as for me to work. However I generally do work a few hours each day anyway. Me not working = money not coming in.

    I carry a small moleskine notebook too (love my moleskine!) and use it to make notes whenever I have a few minutes spare. And yes, I tell people that I’m working. Family are the hardest though, possibly because they don’t have a clue what I do.

    The attitudes of people always amaze me. “But you work for yourself” To which I normally reply with a saccarine sweet smile “which means that when I don’t work then I don’t get paid” or something very similar to Kathryn’s reply above.

    The only people who get it are the one’s who also work for themselves. And they’re normally sitting right next to me working away themselves.
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  9. Dearest Kelly,

    If you can figure out how to a) not electrocute yourself with your laptop in our hottub, and b) drink wine, eat Lion prepared food, and still focus on your customers …. well, then fill your workaholic boots my girl!

    Sincerely,

    Eliza (a.k.a. Urban Panther)
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  10. Kelly says:

    Eliza,

    I am going to be very, very busy trying to figure out which of your many aliases to use. I don’t think I can fit work into that schedule, lol.

    Hot tub, eh? I hadn’t even thought of that. Better to bring a notebook and a pen with waterproof ink, if I’m even considering work. :)

    Until later,

    Kelly
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  11. I just got back from a week away and since there was computer access, once a day I cleared out email. This week has been about getting back into the groove, which means my fiction has suffered. We’re going away againg this weekend meaning more time away from fiction too.

    That’s my struggle. People can understand the work needs, but to say “I’m going to ignore you all to write my novel for a while” means choosing to miss out on fun and to isolate myself. People don’t get why I might want to do that while on holiday…
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  12. I am not writer just blogger and travel a lot, but then I am away I am try also to be away from computer as much as possible, otherwise all writing can became not just hobby but burden.
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