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		<title>By: Harry</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/who-would-you-thank-for-helping-you-get-where-you-are/comment-page-1#comment-13557</link>
		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 10:56:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Malou: Oh, no worries there. Just yesterday I called my dad and told him what a great guy he is just because he was on my mind. He was totally floored, but in a good way ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Malou: Oh, no worries there. Just yesterday I called my dad and told him what a great guy he is just because he was on my mind. He was totally floored, but in a good way <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: malou</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/who-would-you-thank-for-helping-you-get-where-you-are/comment-page-1#comment-13541</link>
		<dc:creator>malou</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 03:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>parents really should be thanked of because of their unconditional love without them we are nothing.. so as early as now tell them that you love them before its too late..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>parents really should be thanked of because of their unconditional love without them we are nothing.. so as early as now tell them that you love them before its too late..</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/who-would-you-thank-for-helping-you-get-where-you-are/comment-page-1#comment-7308</link>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 20:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow @everyone.  When this group gets down to it, you really pack a whollop.  I was doing fine until James&#039; Cliffsnotes stabbed me in the gut and Dave twisted it in so succinctly.

I have such a hard time letting anyone, besides those closest to me, know how I feel.  In my mind I know I have to try harder or one day it&#039;s going to simply be too late, but damn... it like a HUGE SOLID wall.  Of course I have to try.  All your stories and comments make that very clear.

@James That may not have been the most beautiful writing you&#039;ve done, but it was truly honest, and sometimes that counts for a whole lot more.

So thank you Harry for posting, and thank everyone else for sharing, but particular thanks you to James and Dave for making me feel it.  I needed that.  (Can I hug you guys?)  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow @everyone.  When this group gets down to it, you really pack a whollop.  I was doing fine until James&#8217; Cliffsnotes stabbed me in the gut and Dave twisted it in so succinctly.</p>
<p>I have such a hard time letting anyone, besides those closest to me, know how I feel.  In my mind I know I have to try harder or one day it&#8217;s going to simply be too late, but damn&#8230; it like a HUGE SOLID wall.  Of course I have to try.  All your stories and comments make that very clear.</p>
<p>@James That may not have been the most beautiful writing you&#8217;ve done, but it was truly honest, and sometimes that counts for a whole lot more.</p>
<p>So thank you Harry for posting, and thank everyone else for sharing, but particular thanks you to James and Dave for making me feel it.  I needed that.  (Can I hug you guys?)  <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Dianne Murphy-Rodgers</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/who-would-you-thank-for-helping-you-get-where-you-are/comment-page-1#comment-7113</link>
		<dc:creator>Dianne Murphy-Rodgers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 19:48:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Harry, thank you for this! 

I make a habit of telling the people in my life that they are important to me and much appreciated and really enjoyed this post. So much so, that I kept marking the RSS feed for it as &#039;unread&#039; so i would remember to call over and thank you for it!

Inpsired by the lovely Darren Rowse, I am doing it today ... 

Sending much appreciation to you and James for your great advice and for so generously sharing it with us all!

:o)

&lt;em&gt;Dianne Murphy-Rodgers&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://moondreaming-daisy.blogspot.com/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Write here!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Harry, thank you for this! </p>
<p>I make a habit of telling the people in my life that they are important to me and much appreciated and really enjoyed this post. So much so, that I kept marking the RSS feed for it as &#8216;unread&#8217; so i would remember to call over and thank you for it!</p>
<p>Inpsired by the lovely Darren Rowse, I am doing it today &#8230; </p>
<p>Sending much appreciation to you and James for your great advice and for so generously sharing it with us all!</p>
<p> <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
<p><em>Dianne Murphy-Rodgers&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://moondreaming-daisy.blogspot.com/' rel="nofollow">Write here!</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: The Best Laid Plans : Write From Home</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Best Laid Plans : Write From Home</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 16:08:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] week began with rushing my mother to the hospital. I&#8217;m grateful to say I don&#8217;t have to eulogize her yet, and that&#8217;s as deep as I&#8217;m going because I&#8217;m determined not to spend [...]</description>
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<p>[...] week began with rushing my mother to the hospital. I&#8217;m grateful to say I don&#8217;t have to eulogize her yet, and that&#8217;s as deep as I&#8217;m going because I&#8217;m determined not to spend [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa Donovan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa Donovan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 05:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Harry, You can bet I will do that, although &lt;i&gt;when&lt;/i&gt; is the question since time has become a nonentity in my life. This seems to be a rather emotional week. Maybe today is the peak. The peak of the week -- complete with tissues. 

For me to write something deeply sentimental will mean I have to kick down a few of my writers&#039; walls. I mean, I write sentimental stuff quite a lot, but I never publish it. I&#039;m a closet crybaby. Well, breaking down walls is why I started blogging in the first place so you&#039;re on.

&lt;em&gt;Melissa Donovan&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.melissadonovan.com/reviews/jeff-buckley-grace&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jeff Buckley: Grace (Album)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Harry, You can bet I will do that, although <i>when</i> is the question since time has become a nonentity in my life. This seems to be a rather emotional week. Maybe today is the peak. The peak of the week &#8212; complete with tissues. </p>
<p>For me to write something deeply sentimental will mean I have to kick down a few of my writers&#8217; walls. I mean, I write sentimental stuff quite a lot, but I never publish it. I&#8217;m a closet crybaby. Well, breaking down walls is why I started blogging in the first place so you&#8217;re on.</p>
<p><em>Melissa Donovan&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.melissadonovan.com/reviews/jeff-buckley-grace' rel="nofollow">Jeff Buckley: Grace (Album)</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: QuietRebelWriter</title>
		<link>http://menwithpens.ca/who-would-you-thank-for-helping-you-get-where-you-are/comment-page-1#comment-6539</link>
		<dc:creator>QuietRebelWriter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 03:17:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Harry,
Sometimes I get chills thinking about the power of blogging and creating instant community. With a post like this, you bared a little bit of your soul, got very personal, and put it out there for your friends AND complete strangers. And the phenomenal comments show the resonance it has. Kudos for that. 

I was also saddened to hear about Dan Savage. I read his column every week, and in the midst of his highly entertaining sex advice, political satire and general snark, he is also often heartfelt and painfully genuine. All who haven&#039;t should read him. 

As for myself - I especially feel a bit emotionally raw the last couple days. My baby brother and his wife just had their first child, the first grandchild for my parents, and my first nephew. It&#039;s enough to make a girl who hates crying well up. What&#039;s amazing about it is it&#039;s brought my divorced parents together after acrimonious relations. It&#039;s enough to make us all look past the day to day and express our true appreciation and love for each other. 

Well done, Harry.

&lt;em&gt;QuietRebelWriter&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/04/09/the-group-scene-book-writers-workshops-and-weirdness/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Group Scene: Book Writers, Workshops, and Weirdness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Harry,<br />
Sometimes I get chills thinking about the power of blogging and creating instant community. With a post like this, you bared a little bit of your soul, got very personal, and put it out there for your friends AND complete strangers. And the phenomenal comments show the resonance it has. Kudos for that. </p>
<p>I was also saddened to hear about Dan Savage. I read his column every week, and in the midst of his highly entertaining sex advice, political satire and general snark, he is also often heartfelt and painfully genuine. All who haven&#8217;t should read him. </p>
<p>As for myself &#8211; I especially feel a bit emotionally raw the last couple days. My baby brother and his wife just had their first child, the first grandchild for my parents, and my first nephew. It&#8217;s enough to make a girl who hates crying well up. What&#8217;s amazing about it is it&#8217;s brought my divorced parents together after acrimonious relations. It&#8217;s enough to make us all look past the day to day and express our true appreciation and love for each other. </p>
<p>Well done, Harry.</p>
<p><em>QuietRebelWriter&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/04/09/the-group-scene-book-writers-workshops-and-weirdness/' rel="nofollow">The Group Scene: Book Writers, Workshops, and Weirdness</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Harry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 02:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Karen: You&#039;re welcome. *offers her a hankie to wipe the dust from her eye* It was a bit windy here today, I understand.

@Melissa: Ah, now you have a challenge to write something to lift our spirits! I dare you. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Karen: You&#8217;re welcome. *offers her a hankie to wipe the dust from her eye* It was a bit windy here today, I understand.</p>
<p>@Melissa: Ah, now you have a challenge to write something to lift our spirits! I dare you. <img src='http://menwithpens.ca/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Melissa Donovan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa Donovan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 01:35:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. After an overwhelmingly busy day that&#039;s not even close to over (and looks to be stretching well into the wee hours of the night), I see that MwP is having a tearfest. And now how can I go back to writing about trite subjects and dealing with difficult clients and technical issues when all I want to do is sit here and sob into my keyboard for a few hours. 

@Allison, your dad sounds a lot like mine. He&#039;s not a big hugger but I know without a doubt how much he loves me. I also understand why he is that way and I accept it. Actually, I only really noticed it a few years ago. 

People around the world and even people who live in the same house have such different ways of expressing their feelings. If you love someone you can tell them or you can show them. There are many ways to do that. It&#039;s great to get hugs and kisses. It&#039;s great to hear &quot;I love you.&quot; It&#039;s great to realize through the actions of others that they care for you deeply. As long as people find some way to communicate their love, however they feel most comfortable doing that, I think that is what really matters in the end. Just to know that you&#039;re loved and to find a way to make sure others know you love them.

&lt;em&gt;Melissa Donovan&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.melissadonovan.com/reviews/jeff-buckley-grace&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jeff Buckley: Grace (Album)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. After an overwhelmingly busy day that&#8217;s not even close to over (and looks to be stretching well into the wee hours of the night), I see that MwP is having a tearfest. And now how can I go back to writing about trite subjects and dealing with difficult clients and technical issues when all I want to do is sit here and sob into my keyboard for a few hours. </p>
<p>@Allison, your dad sounds a lot like mine. He&#8217;s not a big hugger but I know without a doubt how much he loves me. I also understand why he is that way and I accept it. Actually, I only really noticed it a few years ago. </p>
<p>People around the world and even people who live in the same house have such different ways of expressing their feelings. If you love someone you can tell them or you can show them. There are many ways to do that. It&#8217;s great to get hugs and kisses. It&#8217;s great to hear &#8220;I love you.&#8221; It&#8217;s great to realize through the actions of others that they care for you deeply. As long as people find some way to communicate their love, however they feel most comfortable doing that, I think that is what really matters in the end. Just to know that you&#8217;re loved and to find a way to make sure others know you love them.</p>
<p><em>Melissa Donovan&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.melissadonovan.com/reviews/jeff-buckley-grace' rel="nofollow">Jeff Buckley: Grace (Album)</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 01:30:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Harry,  I can offer no words that would express what your words made me feel so I simply offer &quot;thank you.&quot; You are a really good guy who in a short period of time has really touched my life.  Feel free to be introspective anytime. Beautiful. (Not crying, there&#039;s dust in my eye!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Harry,  I can offer no words that would express what your words made me feel so I simply offer &#8220;thank you.&#8221; You are a really good guy who in a short period of time has really touched my life.  Feel free to be introspective anytime. Beautiful. (Not crying, there&#8217;s dust in my eye!)</p>
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